![]() He will try to belittle you, he will call you crazy, he will get angry, he will try to make your life a hell until you start sleeping with him again and being his friend. A man like this will up his ante the minute you back off. Join another gym or take up a new sport – you never know what kind of great new men you’ll meet there.Īnd he will. And that includes no “bumping into him” at places you both go to like the gym. This might be painful to hear at first, but what will cause you even more misery is sticking with such a situation. Every time you sleep with him you are physically endangering yourself (I hope you’re using condoms).Įither way, the truth is that – just like the movie says – he’s not into you. He may frequent prostitutes for all you know. There may not be another woman for years. Some men don’t need more than such an arrangement with you. There are a lot of reasons why a man would want to have a “friends with benefits” arrangement with you – and I say arrangement, because you’re fooling yourself if you think this is a real relationship. ![]() I know, because I’ve been there – until I raised my self esteem to the point I was finally able to attract my husband. That’s a terrible place to be and one I would never wish for you. And if you do agree to sex without exclusivity, the only thing you will lose – the thing that really matters – is yourself. If you’re afraid of losing a man because you won’t agree to a “ friends with benefits” type of arrangement, I’ve got news for you: you’ve already lost him. ![]()
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